"Menene Masturbation, Matsalolinsa da Hanyoyin Magance Shi"
— rubutaccen taƙaitaccen ilimi ne, ya dace da masu karatu kuma ba ya saɓa da ƙa’idar AdSense.
🟢 Menene Masturbation?
Masturbation, wanda ake kira taba kai a Hausa, hanya ce da mutum ke taɓa sassan jikinsa musamman al’aurarsa don jin daɗi ko fitar da maniyyi. A wasu lokuta ana yin hakan ne saboda sha’awa, damuwa, ko kuma rashin samun abokin aure.
Kodayake masana sun bayyana cewa yawanci wannan dabi’a tana farawa ne daga lokacin samartaka, amma tana iya zama matsala idan ta zama jaraba (addiction) ko ta hana mutum yin abubuwan da suka fi muhimmanci a rayuwa.
🔴 Matsalolin Masturbation
Idan mutum yana yawan yin masturbation, zai iya fuskantar matsaloli daban-daban kamar:
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Rashin ƙarfi a jiki da tunani – Yawan fitar da maniyyi na iya sa gajiya da raunin tsoka.
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Rashin natsuwa da bacci – Saboda canjin hormones da ke faruwa bayan yin masturbation.
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Rashin sha’awar ainihin jima’i – Mutum na iya rasa sha’awar yin aure ko hulɗa ta halal.
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Ciwon mara da raunin ƙwaƙwalwa – Wasu na fama da ciwon mara ko rashin ƙarfin tunani.
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Laifin addini – Addinin Musulunci da na Kirista duka sun nuna cewa wannan aiki ba daidai ba ne.
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Jarabar kallon batsa – Yawanci yana haɗuwa da kallon abubuwan batsa wanda ke lalata kwakwalwa.
🟡 Dalilan Da Ke Jawo Masturbation
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Rashin yin ibada ko dogon nesa da Allah.
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Kallon fina-finai ko hotunan batsa.
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Rashin aikin yi ko nishaɗi mai amfani.
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Rashin aure ko tazara da abokin aure.
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Wani lokaci saboda damuwa ko tsoro.
🟢 Hanyoyin Magance Masturbation
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Neman kusanci da Allah – Yin addu’a, karatun Al-Qur’ani, da natsuwa suna rage sha’awa.
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Guje wa kallon batsa – Duk abin da zai motsa sha’awa, a nisance shi gaba ɗaya.
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Rikice kai da ayyukan alheri – Yin wasa, karatu, koyon sana’a, ko yin motsa jiki.
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Rage zama kai kaɗai – A yi ƙoƙari a kasance cikin jama’a.
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A yi aure idan ya yiwu – Aure shi ne mafi inganci wajen magance wannan hali.
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Tuntuɓi likitan kwakwalwa ko malamin addini idan halin ya fi ƙarfi.
🔵 Kammalawa
Masturbation ba hanya ce ta samun daɗi mai dorewa ba. Yana iya lalata tunani, addini, da lafiyar jiki. Abin da ya fi dacewa shi ne guje masa, a mayar da hankali wajen natsuwa, addu’a, ilimi, da sana’a domin cika gibin da ke jawo sha’awa.
✳️ Karshen Shawara
Mutum ya kamata ya gane cewa ɗan Adam ba cikakke ba ne, amma duk wanda ya yanke shawarar daina dabi’ar da ta saba da halinsa, to yana iya samun nasara da taimakon Allah.
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